I’ve heard a lot of reasons why gay people shouldn’t be allowed to get married.  I have heard a lot of reasons why gays should not be allowed to have  kids.  I’ve heard that once you allow a man to marry a man, next up is man marries a goat.  Some say promoting gay families will recruit children.  (Even though I was “recruited” by a straight woman.  A post on that at a later time.)  Some think a loving gay family will turn others gay like it’s a makeover of some sort.  And then, of course, I’ve heard that it will somehow kill the straight marriage.  I think the problem with all of these arguments is that they are NOT STRONG ENOUGH.  If you…