I thought about writing a whole thing about Wifesy today.  The thing is I’m very protective of her.  I put her image up in a slideshow once, as part of a gig, and I hated it.  I don’t like people ogling my Wifesy.     A social media guy said to me once, “Sure, you need to be transparent and authentic online.  Sure you do.  However, YOU control how much of yourself or your family you reveal at any one time.”   I liked that idea.  I’m in control.  My relationship is valued and therefore, private.  It doesn’t mean I don’t talk about her.  Readers here know that I do.  It’s that I don’t have to do the typical Valentine’s Day thing and write…